An interpretation of Freddie Mercury's subconscious artistic sentiments? Remember the last time you rode your bicycle, and the control you exerted through manipulating the direction of the handlebars. Now, imagine that your partner's hips are the handle bars, under your control at the tips of your fingers. Through your guidance, direct your partner's pelvis up towards you and then away through all the range of motion. You will naturally find some positions more stimulating than others, but this will change depending upon the state of sexual arousal, and for the female, her level of vaginal engorgement. With this super method, you have control without a word, and without breaking the stride; this is often commented by women as being one of the most important factors for increasing the state of sexual arousal "not breaking the stride".
Stay tuned for more sex and info tips on non-verbal communication in bed!
Wishing sexual health for one and all!
Sue Sabijan
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Saturday, November 27, 2010
Question: How do I know if sex therapy can help me, or if I need to see a medical doctor for lack of desire?
Hello Everyone!
An important question that I have come across in my practice is whether to go to a sex therapist or a medical doctor about the sexual problem of lack of desire for sex in a relationship. The main indicator here would be whether you experience sexual feelings, thoughts, and arousal in any other situations. A simple test would be, if you are able to engage in self-stimulation and/or masturbation and experience some form of arousal. If so, this is an indicator that the physiology of the sexual response is working, hence, you are a great candidate for sexuality psychotherapy which will work towards improved sexual fulfillment with non-medicinal interventions.
Stay tuned for more informational tidbits.
An important question that I have come across in my practice is whether to go to a sex therapist or a medical doctor about the sexual problem of lack of desire for sex in a relationship. The main indicator here would be whether you experience sexual feelings, thoughts, and arousal in any other situations. A simple test would be, if you are able to engage in self-stimulation and/or masturbation and experience some form of arousal. If so, this is an indicator that the physiology of the sexual response is working, hence, you are a great candidate for sexuality psychotherapy which will work towards improved sexual fulfillment with non-medicinal interventions.
Stay tuned for more informational tidbits.
Thursday, November 25, 2010
For All the Questions You Can't Ask Your Mom About
Hello Everyone! I'm a practicing psychotherapist with a special interest in sexuality. I've seen countless couples who have been to me with issues about their sex life, and I am hip on the research that's been going on with human sexuality. I'm here to demystify all the questions you may have about sex!
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