Hello Everyone,
Valentines day gift ideas for the ladies! A common comment I often get from the ladies is that music just makes the rhythmic romance better. Here's a gift idea that can keep on giving; why not surprise him with a cd (or Playlist) of your favorite specially selected sexy songs. Yes, an overt sex cd! Let him know about your diabolical plot for self-centered satisfaction and how to play along; you get your needs met, he feels informed and powerful (why? because knowledge is power, and you just bestowed some upon him!) and the plan is that he's acquiescent before the detumescence.
You're in control, ladies, choose songs that reflect your needs, as far as rhythm and intensity, with a natural progression that follows your sexual response. Here's your chance to train your partner on how long to spend on intro, verse, chorus, climax, bridge, outro (you get the progressions). So the amount of foreplay you prefer can be signaled by a song or series that you respond to and that get you in the mood. To begin, perhaps something romantic, slow, sensual, dreamy with a slower rhythm (or not) that follows your body's arousal response, be cognizant of the time that it generally takes for your sexual response to build to frenetic proportions. Then when you're physiologically ready, for the physicists the big bang theory; bring in the big guns; aka, the climax material; the song that really floats your boat, and he can be the man in the boat! Count him in if you need to, that's why drummers are so sexy, it's all in the jeans!! And, don't forget the boxer's triplets, last week's lesson. Take him on a ride from Yani to Akon, and back (don't forget an interlude of Pitbull in the throes of Lady Gaga).
Sex cd outcomes: you feel important, valued and understood; he feels powerful/submissive (nice contrasting blend of vigilance/amusement, igniting excitement of novelty through confusion)
Ladies let this V-day be a romantic celebration of vaginal coitus, don't worry he'll be thrilled and inevitably satisfied as a by-product of your satisfaction!
Stay tuned (rhythmically?) for more sex and info tips coming soon.
Wishing sexual health and fulfillment for one and all!
Sue
Whatan xcellent idea! The suggestion is also empowering for yourself in that you'll need to know about yourself in order to teach someone else about yourself. I guess I have some homework to do.
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